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Marriage and Family: God's Design for Love That Lasts

The first wedding took place in a garden, with God Himself giving the bride away. His design for marriage and family is still the best blueprint for lasting love.

“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”Genesis 2:24 (KJV)

Planned in Eden

Marriage wasn't invented by society. God created it before sin entered the world. “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him” (Genesis 2:18). Then: “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). Jesus quoted those words and added, “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matthew 19:6).

A lifelong covenant

In Scripture, marriage is a covenant, a sacred promise, between one man and one woman for life (Malachi 2:14). It's meant to reflect Christ's love for His people. Paul tells husbands to love their wives “even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it” (Ephesians 5:25). That's a love of sacrifice, faithfulness and respect.

Choosing wisely

Because marriage shapes our faith and our future, the Bible encourages believers to marry someone who shares their faith: “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers” (2 Corinthians 6:14). It's one of the most practical studies in the series, especially for young adults.

Strong families

The Bible is full of wisdom for families: honouring parents (Exodus 20:12), patient parenting (Ephesians 6:4), and teaching children God's ways in everyday moments, “when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way” (Deuteronomy 6:7). Couples and families are welcome to study together, around their own kitchen table or online.

Questions for reflection

  1. What do Genesis 2:18–24 and Matthew 19:4–6 teach about God's design for marriage?
  2. How does Ephesians 5:21–33 describe the love between husband and wife?
  3. Why does sharing the same faith matter in marriage?
  4. What is one habit from Deuteronomy 6:6–9 your family could start this week?
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